My loving husband

It might be un-feminist for me to say this, but I love it when my husband calls me MILF. <---- IT IS ACTUALLY SO WRONG THAT WIKIPEDIA HAS THE DEFINITION OF IT.

This week in What to Expect When You Are Expecting has a couple pages discussing sex during pregnancy. I was wondering what took so long to have this section because all the issues talked about in this chapter I have wondered since day one. And since I couldn't wait, even without the help of what the book tells me, I think I kindda figure things out myself, though I am not going into details of how often we have sex and what positions we use to work around the bellies (his and mine). I can tell you that I might have been the pregnant lady who's got the most action!! I also noticed my little blueberry likes orgasms a lot.

One woman in the book said that whenever she feels horny, her husband is either too tired or not into it.

That's messed up! Doesn't he know his job is to satisfy her whenever she needs especially when she is pregnant? So what's wrong with this husband? Is he not attracted to her anymore? Or maybe he jerks off too much already. That poor lady had to end up masturbating I guess.

All baby or pregnancy newsletter/emails that I subscribe to always have a section of what the partner should do that week to cope with the specific situations that might occur. Often times they talk about how important an emotional support is, especially when the pregnant ones go crazy on them. Lucky for TB, I am not crazy. Or if I am, he does not see it, or he would think it's just the normal me anyway. TB has been a very supportive partner by mocking me about my also pregnant arms, as well as refusing to take me to eat Chinese breakfast in Flushing or wherever there is on Sunday mornings. He still raises his voice at me when I forget to flush the toilet or nags at me about everything you could think of.

I still love him to death. He treats me the same regardless, knowing that I hate to be reminded I am pregnant. He would take me out eating sushi, share his glass of wine or beer with me, and give me a taste of things I shouldn't be eating just so that I don't feel left out.

Yes, I want to feel normal.

Deep down we both know even though there is a baby on the way, he and I are still the most important people to each other. Baby should feel lucky even to get our attention (which he will for the first god knows how many years). I have seen one too many marriages fail because of the new family members being in the picture and I know it won't happen to us. See, I learn from other people's hard earned lessons.

We have talked about scenarios like, if anything happened during labor and delivery, who would he want to save? He gives the best answer by saying he will save me because we can always make more babies, but I am the one and only he has. My husband is trained very well by moi.

Don't feel bad for our baby - he is going to grow up having plenty of love from his parents. However, we are also building a healthy loving environment for him by loving each other a lot and more.

Like I have always said, I only have this baby because I love TB, so it's pretty obvious what my priority is. Whenver I look at myself and feel disgusted, I'd remind myself that it's going to be a mini-TB. In any way, he is really the biggest support I have.




#Ilovebeingamilf
DearJulie


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Workout of the day
Cycling: 45 minutes
Seated cable row: 3x10
Lat pulldown: 3x12
Lat extension: 3x15
Cable curl: 3x10
Pilates machine: 1 hr
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